Saturday, August 21, 2010

The container story, an update

URGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The container that we shipped from America with all of my personal items that I never moved, and all our beautiful new furniture. It has been stuck in Hamburg for exactly one week now. Why? I don't qualify for the one time, tax free, move. Why? I've been here too long. This one makes me sooooo angry. Although there is a lot of stuff in the container that is new, there is also tons of stuff in the container that I have been keeping at my father's house for the past 10 or so years. I have my books from school, all my old posters and items from traveling, old prom dresses, even mom's second wedding dress. Just because I've lived here so long simply does not mean that I am not moving my personal items now. Don't they realize that people can, and do, put things in storage for extended periods of time, when they are living abroad. You can't bring everything over at once in a suitcase.
So, the new approach- my mom and stepfather died, and I inherited 1/2 of all their household goods. I have good reason to belive that I should be entitled to bring my mother's items to Germany. But, we need death certificates, and copies of both wills. I have one stamped copy of my stepfather's death certificate, but only a photocopy of my mom's (my fault, I know.) And, I only have a signed version of my mom's will.
Sheesh!
So, they wanted to hold the container in Hamburg until we got everything worked out. This could take a reeally long time! Joern told his father the story, and to my very happy surprise, he contacted his friends at Nuertingen customs. They discussed the situation, and they agreed to take over the job of the container from Hamburg customs. The positive in this is that our furniture will be delivered to us on MONDAY!! We need to unpack the container, and then wait for a few weeks until customs arrives to check through the contents.
This is the best news. Joern and I are off to organized the Joern's parents' storage warehouse, so that we can store all of our very beautiful, very going to live in our new home furniture!
Thank you so very much Wolfgang!

Friday, August 20, 2010

Meeting number one million

After the bliss of yesterday morning's purchase started to settle in, we had an appointment with Mr. Builder and Mr. B (our architect and project manager.) It was the first meeting between Mr. B and Mr. Builder, and they had some items to clarify. Mostly, this part of the meeting could have been completed without us, because we didn't really have any clue what they were talking about. The first part of the meeting lasted about an hour, and started with Mr. Builder's news- the retaining wall running behind all the new properties pushed forward a bit. The positive is that our piece of the wall is minimal, so if we do need to chip in to replace it, it won't be very much. Not sure who is responsible for fixing the wall though, as it was built many, many years ago. It would be nice if we won't have to pay to fix it. Oh, the joys of homeownership!
Mr. B and Mr. Builder started off discussing the insulation for underneath the foundation. I remember Mr. B and Joern's cousin, the structural engineer, discussing in great detail this insulation. It is now popular to place a lot of insulation underneath houses, but this was a problem for us that we were building on a hill. Joern's cousin then planned a material called Misapor to be placed underneath the house. Misapor is a soft stone made with recycled glass fibers. Sounds great. Mr. Builder though said that because of the nature of our building site, there will be times when the crane needs to be placed directly onto our building lot, and may have to sit on the layer underneath the foundation for a few days. Evidently, while the stone can stand up to the weight of a house, as the weight is more evenly distributed, it will crush underneath the crane. So, we will have stones laid underneath our house.
We discussed making the cellar water-tight. A special paper will be applied around the entire cellar, as an extra insurance, to insure that it is water-tight.
We also have not had a geological test completed on our lot. We have not done this because there is a house that is being built one lot over. We can pretty much asume that our ground is the same as theirs, but you never know. It was discussed that once we start excavation, Mr. B and Mr. Builder will look at the ground to decide if we need to have a geological survey done on the property.
There was a bit of a discussion about using pre-fab pieces for the garage instead of having the walls for the garages built directly at the site. Mr. Builder countered though by explaining that especially Joern's garage is very high, and pre-fab concrete walls of that height would be almost impossible to move. Oh well.
They also both discussed pitching the garage floor. Huh. It turns out that if the floor is not pitched, and you drive into the garage with a wet or snowy car, the water just sits in the garage; whereas, if it is pitched, the water will drain off. I guess it is really expensive, but is standard in higher-end homes (yes, we found out today that our house lies on the high-end side of the scale.) I don't know what to do about this, Joern says we don't need it. Does it get moldy if you don't drain or dry it?
Mr. B brought up that we want a roof-light dome in the foyer. Joern wants to use a glass that you can walk on top of, so we don't lose any use of our front terrace. This is going to be a very expensive option, so we may just be looking at reduced use of this one terrace.
Lastly, we found out that the operator of the excavating machine will not be available till Wednesday next week, so, we'll probably be breaking ground next Wednesday! Wahoo! It actually works out well, because the surveyor cannot come out until Tuesday to mark out our lot, which means that they can't break ground until Wednesday anyway! Fab!
After Mr. Builder left, Joern and I spent another hour with Mr. B.
Here are some points we discussed:
1. We signed the paperwork that Mr. B needs to file with our town hall
for the Roter Punkt, the approved vendor list release (?) which
allows you to actually start building.
2. Windows. We still aren't there yet. I was almost in tears.
We know the material, and we know we'll have window grills,
but we don't know how to set up the windows in the front.
Joern changed the windows to the same size on the top and the bottom,
but now that they're the same size, I feel like they have too modern
a look to go with the grills. We changed from sliders to french doors,
that's fine by me. So, after 20 minutes, we came to an agreement that
we need to talk about it for a few more weeks. We have to decide
how we want to protect the upstairs windows. Our options are
to have the window split in half, the top half is able to open,
and the bottom half does not open, or we can use french balconies.
3. We discussed the chimney. Last time this was discussed, we decided
on a stainless pipe that goes up the outside. I HATED this option
because it is way to modern on my beautiful house. So, we asked
about cementing over the chimney on the outside, and painting it.
Mr. B explained that this is really expensive, and for some reason,
they don't hold up to the weather. After hemming-and-hawing, Mr. B
said, "How about putting the chimney back inside the house, and
running it up through the master bedroom?" We lose a few inches
in one corner of our bedroom, but this way we don't lose space in the
children's bath, plus, we get to keep the window in the children's
bath, and I don't have a stainless pipe running up the middle of my
house. Plus, I think the chimney will look nice on the roof.
4. We rearranged our bathroom again, and got rid of the bidet. I know
Joern really wants the bidet, so we are thinking of going to a
bathroom designer to see if they can reconfigure the bathroom.
Its a huge room, it should work.
5. We will have recessed lighting in the living areas of the home.
Turns out, they are NOT cheap!
6. We asked Mr. B about our recessed medicine cabinets and asked about
possibly making built-in shelves in the living room. No problem.
Those walls then will need to be built by a carpenter instead of
with stone. No problem!
That's about it. It was long, and a little stressful, but it was so nice that most everything worked out. I think once we make a final decision on the windows, we'll feel better.

After the meeting, we headed over to our new neighbor's house. The other couple, not Joern's friend, were in their house doing some electrical work. We chatted for a while, and it turns out the husband was just in Farmington, CT two weeks ago. Funny :) They also invited us to their "Richtfest" tomorrow night. Mr. Builder evidently set up their Richtfest, so I'd like to see one before having to hold one by myself. The new neighbors seem so nice, it seems really good.

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Officially landowners!!!!

How freakin' exciting!!!! As of 10:30 this morning, we are officially landowners! Obviously, the day has been filled with excitement and lots dreaming and even a walk through our land.
Wahoo! It feels incredible!

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Dear family Roesner, you are formally invited to

Pay up! We received the letter today from the notary public. Now that we have completed all the necessary steps, we now have the permission to purchase our building lot. Wow, thanks!
10 days to pay, but we're going to do it much sooner, like this afternoon, or tomorrow.
The good news is of course, that we will officially own, a very small, but very ours, piece of property!
Hooray!
In other news, we stopped by the builder's office today. He wasn't there, but his secretary checked and he has marked in his calendar that we will be meeting with both Mr. Builder and Mr. B tomorrow afternoon :) Yay! I can't wait to hear what news they have for us!

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Are you kidding me?

We got a letter in the mail today from the Finanzamt, the tax ministry. UGH! There was a lovely cover letter confirming that they have been informed (because Big Brother is always watching,) that our building lot has now been entered into the Grundbuch (the property registry) in our names. This means it is time to start paying property tax. We haven't even paid for the property yet!
The following pages were two copies of a questionaire that we need to complete and return. It is a little ridiculous.
The questionaire is 5 questions, which seems simple enough, until you read the entire thing.
1. Do you plan on builiding on this lot?
2. Have you already planned what will be built on this lot? If yes, please send a copy of your building application permit.
3. How did you purchase this land? (Through a thrid party, through an architect, blah, blah, blah...)
4. How did you become aware of this property? Please send a copy of the advertisement for the lot with this questionaire.
5. Was there any work on the property before you purchased it? (Excavation, an existing house, foundation)

This is to determine the amount of property sales tax that we need to pay. Seriously?

What is so dumb is that this was a simple private sale. We called the owners who we knew were selling off their building lots, and they sold us one. Simple. The problem is that we wonder if this may even effect the old owners' taxes. They purchased the land a few years ago, split it up, and sold it. But really, this is crazy. I don't save everything, I certainly don't have the advertisement for the lot, and I don't really want to give them our building permit application until we have to.

All this needs to be completed by 31 August, or we run the risk of having our names taken off the property registry.

GRRRRR!

Monday, August 16, 2010

We have a new picture site!

I hoped that I could keep the housebuilding process confined to this blog, but I can't. There is no way I can put all of our house pictures on this blog, it would be way too huge. But, Joern and I want to take a lot of pictures not only for documentation, but also so that everyone who is not here with us, can see in detail the house building process.
So, I created a share site on Shutterfly. This is where we'll store all of our pictures, and you, my faithful blog readers can check it whenever you want (I think.)

www.makingahomefortheroesners.shutterfly.com

Hope you enjoy as we get closer and closer to our break ground date!

Sunday, August 15, 2010

A little inspiration

Joern and I had the craziest day yesterday. This past week, we have been going crazy trying to figure out the situation with the windows. I won't go into all the ridiculous details again, but the windows were driving us crazy. And we were getting really mean towards each other.
The problem with the windows is that if they look bad, well, you're stuck with them for quite a while, afterall, they are a large investment. And no matter how you picture something in your head, it has no real-life impact.
So, we decided to head back to the Model Home Park in Stuttgart, to look at houses and get some ideas.
Along the way, Joern decided to make a detour. Ever since we've started this house project, over a year ago, we have spent countless nights and weekends driving around looking at existing houses for ideas. Joern also had the luxury of looking at houses as he drove around his region for work. A few months ago, Joern had spotted a house that he thought I might like. It is about 20 minutes drive here, on the other side of the Neckar Valley. He brought me for a drive to see it a few days later, and I immediately fell in love. The house is quite similar to ours, two full floors, plenty of floor length windows. The house is white with a black roof, and window grills. It looked so beautiful.
Of course, as we have looked at thousands of house pictures since seeing this one, it faded a bit in our memory. Joern decided to return to look at the house yesterday as a refresher.
Oh My God! I am in love. Out of all the houses we've looked at, it is by far up there with my other favorite (the house belonging to my friend in Dresden.) BEAUTIFUL! PERFECT! OURS!!



It is now our main inspiration.
One thing I'm always a bit nervous about is slowing down in front of houses, and the continual drive-bys. I'm convinced that in one neighborhood, we're already on watch, we've started taking my in-laws' cars for drive-bys. Yesterday, as we drove by my DREAM HOUSE, we noticed that someone was working on the lawn. To my surprise, even though this shouldn't surprie me, Joern pulls into their driveway! He grabs all our houseplans, and hops out of the car, and introduces himself to the homeowner. Joern explained that we're building a house and we are in love with his house. The homeowner, instead of thinking we were crazy, proceded to spend the next hour talking with the homeowners and touring their home!
It turns out that we are not the first people to ring their doorbell, and proclaim our love for their house. And the homeowners were a lovely, kind husband and wife, living in the house with their two adorable children. He expalined to us that his house is actually a timber-framed pre-fab home. The company actually went bankrupt two months after they built in 2006. He explained to us all about the window grills (which are built into the windows, are are 30 cm for our knowledge,) and their windows were plastic. Surprisingly, they were really beautiful. The house is white with all white trim, white front door which was styled like the windows, with sidelights on both sides. Their house has a beautiful balcony with white wrought-iron railings. Very beautiful. He showed us all sides of the exterior, and even told us what brand of roofing tiles they used.
They were so open with us, and were really interested to see our house plans as well. They even talked openly about costs with us, which in the end, is pretty much the same price as we're going to be paying. I did learn though that I need to buy curtains in the States! They went to a designer here, and paid 15,000 Euro for the window treatments! The hardware, well, I expected to pay about what they paid, but the curtains themselves, while beautiful, were 12,000 Euro! They were right, that they felt strongly that such a beautiful home needed beautiful window treatments. Hello Pottery Barn!
As we ended our visit, Joern gave them his card, and said if they ever want to drive by and check out our house, they're always welcome. They wished us lots of luck with the house, and said they look forward to enjoying a coffee in our home :)
We left the house, and felt like an enormous weight had been lifted from our shoulders. The house was gorgeous, and it was my plan from the beginning. I just started to have my doubts.
From there, we did drive out to the model home park, to measure windows. We need to change some window sizes, and Joern wanted to measure. Fortunately, not too many salespeople bothered us, and most sat in our offices while we walked around, took photos (secretly,) and measured. We're still undecided on the width of the windows, but we'll speak with our architect tomorrow about the windows to get his opinion.
The last thing we did at the model home park was to visit with Frau V, from one of the pre-fab companies. We had worked closely with her and her company for a while, going so far as to get an offer from them. Joern was honest about everything from the get-go, that we prefered to build traditionally with construction workers from the area, and if they were too expensive, that we would indeed choose this company. We went back ýesterday to tell Frau V that we were indeed building with a local builder. At first, she seemed kind-of put-off, and said, "well, I figured since you never got back to me." What's most amazing is that the truth is, until last week, when we received the estimates, we had no idea still who we would be building with. We started talking about our move away from Mr. W, and she admitted, she was concerned when we seemed so excited about working with the previous architect. She said that he doesn't have the best reputation, when it comes to being transparent with costs, and that many people who build with him end up 50,000- 75,000 Euro above his given price. She knew she couldn't tell us this though, so she kept quiet. In the end, she asked to see our house plans, and was excited to see all the changes we've made. We parted on a very positive note, which made me happy because Frau V. is a very nice person.
It was a fabulous day, and at the end, we felt like a huge weight had been lifted from our shoulders. The last time we were in the model home park, we had no idea how long this whole thing was going to take, or where we really were in the process- it was in February to pick up our application for the building permit. This time, we know a lot more of what we're doing, where we're going, and approximately how long its going to take.
I'm really happy, really excited, and of course, really nervous!